Why do you say feminists must be hairy and ugly and fat, and then turn around and drool over Swedish blonds?

i don't understand why any woman has to held accountable and labelled by the way she looks. if she supports feminism then why does that make her ugly? and why do y women have to be stereotyped as being airheads? women are whatever they want to be and anti feminist men should look more closely at themselves because only a pathetic ugly loser would condemn all women and feminists based on their looks.